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Funeral Poem / Pamela Aaron (Wife)  Read >>
Funeral Poem / Pamela Aaron (Wife)

This is the poem I read at Michael's Funeral.


I do not know why my husband wanted to die.
I did not understand all of his pain.
For him when it was sunny, it was all rain.
He made a decision without checking it first.
He made a decision, for us, the worst.
He is no longer in pain this I know true.
He is free from his chains that kept him so blue.
My arms ache for a hug.
My lips long for a kiss,
My mind begs for answers…
My husband I miss.
The grief overwhelms me.
It swallows me whole.
The grief envelops me - my body and soul.
It is hard to put into words the way that I feel.
It is hard to accept that all this is real.
It is hard to explain to people I know or sometimes for my feelings to show.
I long for a day when the pain goes away.
I long for a time when I don’t replay the events of that day.
I take comfort that he is in Heaven.
Up with the Lord on the day he relinquished his sword.

 

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Michael's Eulogy  / Pamela Aaron (Wife)  Read >>
Michael's Eulogy  / Pamela Aaron (Wife)
This is the eulogy I read at Mike's funeral on April 11, 2005


Our lives together began on October 3, 1998. He always told me that from the moment he talked to me, he knew. I didn’t know what he meant by that because he would just come out of nowhere and say, “I know” as he was looking at me. Well I guess as our history has proven, he knew that we were meant to be together. It wasn’t long after we met that we moved in together. It almost seems like yesterday. 6 ½ years just wasn’t long enough. There were times though that we almost didn’t make it. Right from the beginning we had to deal with so many problems that couples being together for years and years didn’t have to deal with, but our love kept us together. Our last argument almost ended with a divorce but as fate would have it, we found our way back to each other and made it to “until death do us part.” He was the answer to my prayers. I found everything I wanted and needed in a husband and father for David from Mike. He had the cutest little ways with me. I was his “Laly Bug” and I don’t really know why but it was my pet name from him. He used to sing Laly Bug, Laly Bug, I love you, yes I do. He was the kind of husband that could and would do anything I asked, more so than not, I didn’t even need to ask. He was tender, loving and kind. I could never imagine my life without him and still can’t. As a father, where do I begin? His kids were his life. Plain and simple as that. Even kids that weren’t his, he’d treat them as though they were. David is the little man he is today because of Mike. Mike was David’s hero, always wanted to be like daddy. Although the time we had was short, it was a time I will never forget. I will cherish all the memories, good and bad, for the rest of my life. Until we meet again my loving wonderful sweetheart, I will say farewell, not ever a Good-bye.

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"I Remember" / Pamela Aaron (Wife)  Read >>
"I Remember" / Pamela Aaron (Wife)
"I Remember"
 
I remember when our love was young and new.
I remember the first time he said, "I love you."
Seems like yesterday we both said, "I do."
There we were...man and wife
For the rest of his life.
Who would've thought after four short years,
I'd be sitting here in tears.
So many things we never did,
So many words left unsaid.
I just can't believe that my beloved is dead!
He had so much love to give
And much more life to live.
But he couldn't take it...
Most days he felt the need to fake it.
Putting on his happy face and acting out
in his silly little ways.
Now I'm struggling with lonely nights
and long-long days.
When will I end this phase?
Guilt has taken hold of my heart
and captured my soul.
Because the truth is what I know.
It's such a shame; it feels like my family is the blame.
I know we'll never be the same.
Please forgive us all...
No one wanted to see you take the fall.
Death didn't have to be.
This is one of life's mysteries...
It was over in the blink of an eye.
So quickly you chose to die.
But our love will last forever.
A bond...
No one - Not even death - can sever.
All the love, heartache and laughter...
I Remember.
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